Rejection always hurts. No matter how much you sugar coat the truth, it always upsets the two souls who used to be in love. It is definitely better to end relationships amicably instead of fretting and fuming and making it even more difficult to go apart. No doubt it will be extremely painful and difficult to let go. But,if you are where you think your relation is not going the right way and you are thinking how to break off without hurting, you have come to the right place. Read on tips for breaking off without hurting yourself and the other person.
Breaking Up Without Hurting
Kamis, 20 Oktober 2011
2nd Generation
- KLS 7
kls 7 itu masih keanak2an gt deh.... jaman2nya musuhan dan masih alay2 gt deh hahahahah\m/ kenangan kls 7 banyakkk bangetttt!!!
sahabat bisa jadi musuh, musuh bisa jadi sahabat.
gue sama nadyalex dulunya musuhan tapi sekarang jadi sahabat. dulu dinda fina dkk sebel sama ifa widya salsa sekarang juga jadi sahabatan. dulu yg pacaran masih malu2. ngobrol aja malu ahahhaha.
kenangan yg paling gak bisa dilupain itu pas tim basket cewek asbcc menang juara 2 pas tanding di azka cup. sangking senengnya pulangnya kita ngerayain dijalan. norak2an, buka kaca mobil dan nyapa2 orang dijalan sambil teriak2 "WOIII KITA MENANG!! ASBCC MENANG!! LIAT NIHH BAJU BASKET GUEE!!" pas itu lagu 'buka semangat baru' lagi ngehits bgt. radio lagi muterin lagu itu jadi kita nyanyi2 gitu deh. pak edi duduk di depan senyum2 doang sambil ngeliatin kita nyanyi2. gue tau pasti pak edi bangga banget kannn sama kita?;;) kita kan tanding abis2an:""). sebenernya ada video nya....tp kehapus!!!!:( padahal kenangan banget kan huu:(
oiya, dulu kls 7 juga masih ada hanny. tapi dia pindah ke texas. pertama kali masuk asbcc dan selama mos gue tuh paling deket sama dia hanna manda. tapi akhir2nya jadi kepisah2 gt deh krn beda kls. gue & hanna kls 71, manda hanny kls 72. kenangan yg paling seru juga pas peslat! banyak banget kejadian seru. malem pertama kita ngga bisa tidur. ribut, rusuh, berisik. wahhh pokonya kacau dehhh! nyampe guru2 yg cewek marahin kita. terus kita disuruh tidur tp gabisaaa-_- akhirnya baru tidur jam 2(kalogasalah) dan jam 2.30 kita udah harus bangun buat sahur. ngantukkk bangeeet paraaaah. setiap ada kegiatan pasti banyak yg tidur deh hahahaha.
kls 7 kita sering banget main petak jongkok, kotak pos, dll. trs suka nyanyi2 gjls. vanya dinda nadya hanna kelompok (maaf) pendek. gue jihan fina kelompok tinggi. hm ini gak ada maksud ngatain serius ya. just for fun heheheheh. jadii intinya kita suka nyanyi2 "KITA ANAK PENDEK, KITA ANAK TINGGI" (?)
ini lah kita pas kls 7.........HAHAHAHAHA
- KLS 8
kls 8 itu....bandel2 hahahha. kls 8 sering banget dihukum. fina ifa dihukum grgr masuk musholla pake sepatu. gue ifa cindy dihukum grgr ketauan ngatain guru ditwitter. padahal gak parah2 banget kok:):):):):) trs sebagian besar kls 81 dihukum grgr nyontek di grup bbm-_- pokonya kls 8 masa2nya bandel deh. tapi masa2 kls 8 itu paling banyak kenangan. lebih banyak dari kls 7. ada sedih, seneng, galau, ngefly:") kls 8 gue deket banget sama rani cindy jessi.. setiap hari pasti duduk di paling belakang trs kalo pelajaran b.indo pasti duduk dibawah, tidur2an, main hp. kalo pelajaran b.sunda pasti cindy gue rani molor.
kls 8 itu sedihnya vanya pindah:(:(:( senengnya ke bandung brg section..ya walaupun gak lengkap 1angkatan huhuh.
kls 8 itu..unforgettable
- KLS 9
kls 9 itu.....belajar
Jumat, 03 Juni 2011
Messi, Villa and Pedro, devastating trident
The MVP attacking trio of Messi, Villa and Pedro scored 62% of the team’s goals this season. Together they have scored 98 goals in 62 official matches, making an average of 1.58 goals a game.
Messi, Villa and Pedro have been the incarnation of goals this season. Even since the departure of such legendary strikers as Ibrahimovic, Eto’o and Henry, thanks to these players Barcelona have been as effective in front of goal as they ever were.
Record breakers
Messi, Villa and Pedro have managed to do better than the strikers managed last term. David Villa came in as the replacement for Ibrahimovic
and this has led to improvements in all departments. Last season, the three first choice strikers scored 93 goals, five less than this year. They did play three fewer games the season before, but the average was also lower: 1.57 goals a game.
Two from the 100 goals of 2008/09
This season’s trident came two shy of the hundred that Eto’o, Messi and Henry did manage in Guardiola’s first year in charge of the first team. That season, the three strikers scored 100 goals, an average of 1.61 goals a game.
The trident in detail
Total | Liga | Champ. | Copa | Sup. Esp | |
Messi | 53 | 31 | 12 | 7 | 3 |
Villa | 23 | 18 | 4 | 4 | |
Pedro | 22 | 13 | 5 | 4 |
Messi, Villa and Pedro have been the incarnation of goals this season. Even since the departure of such legendary strikers as Ibrahimovic, Eto’o and Henry, thanks to these players Barcelona have been as effective in front of goal as they ever were.
Record breakers
Messi, Villa and Pedro have managed to do better than the strikers managed last term. David Villa came in as the replacement for Ibrahimovic
and this has led to improvements in all departments. Last season, the three first choice strikers scored 93 goals, five less than this year. They did play three fewer games the season before, but the average was also lower: 1.57 goals a game.
Two from the 100 goals of 2008/09
This season’s trident came two shy of the hundred that Eto’o, Messi and Henry did manage in Guardiola’s first year in charge of the first team. That season, the three strikers scored 100 goals, an average of 1.61 goals a game.
Party day ends for players with Shakira
The Barça players rounded off the celebrations for the winning of the Champions League on Sunday with a VIP visit to Shakira’s concert at the Olympic Stadium.
Gerard Piqué, Xavi, David Villa, Bojan and Busquets all came out onto the stage during the concert and Víctor Valdés, Éric Abidal and Dani Alves were also in attendance at the concert held at Barcelona’s Olympic Stadiums.
When the song, ‘Whenever, Wherever’, mixed with some licks from ‘Unbelievable’ began, Shakira brought out the Barça number 3 and he was followed by Xavi, Pedro, Villa and Busquets. Shakira declared herself to be thrilled to be “alongside half of the best team in the world”.
The players tried their best to follow Shakira’s dancing and with a cry of ‘Visca el Barça!’ one of the top international artists of the entertainment world put an end to a fantastic day of parties for all the Barça players and fans.
Gerard Piqué, Xavi, David Villa, Bojan and Busquets all came out onto the stage during the concert and Víctor Valdés, Éric Abidal and Dani Alves were also in attendance at the concert held at Barcelona’s Olympic Stadiums.
When the song, ‘Whenever, Wherever’, mixed with some licks from ‘Unbelievable’ began, Shakira brought out the Barça number 3 and he was followed by Xavi, Pedro, Villa and Busquets. Shakira declared herself to be thrilled to be “alongside half of the best team in the world”.
The players tried their best to follow Shakira’s dancing and with a cry of ‘Visca el Barça!’ one of the top international artists of the entertainment world put an end to a fantastic day of parties for all the Barça players and fans.
Sabtu, 28 Mei 2011
Breaking Up Without Hurting
- Make it Personal - NEVER break the news through a phone call, e-mail, or text message. It becomes even more rude and very impersonal and tells the other person that you don't really care. Sit and talk to each other face-to-face and sort things out amicably.
- Choose the Right Location – Deciding on the correct location is very important to ward off any uncomfortable feelings and any inconveniences. If possible decide on a neutral location like a café or if this is not possible, do it at the other person’s house. This is because if you do it at your place, it will be like asking him to leave your place after the formalities are over. Breaking off at his place will be easier as it will be you who is physically leaving.
- Be Honest - Being sincere and open about your feelings and talking about why you feel it is not going to work out is the best way to end a relation. Instead of going back in time and arguing what went wrong with the other person, it better you say what you feel. Don't hide your feelings and be honest about why you are feeling uncomfortable in the relationship.
- Specify Reasons - Give a strong reason to support your break up. It is not wise to keep the other person wondering as to what went wrong. No one wants to think that they were just used as a time pass. Remember, what goes around, comes back. Someday you could be in the same position.
- Control your Temper - This applies not only to the person who is giving the news of break up, but also the person at the receiving end. There is no need to get worked up and get angry at each other. Calling names and screaming does not help, it only makes things worse. It is okay to get upset and cry if you are feeling miserable. But creating a scene and making a further mess of a delicate situation does not help.
Senin, 23 Mei 2011
Jumat, 06 Mei 2011
Kisah Cinta Sylvia ~
TRUE STORY
diambil dari kisah nyata.
Sampai akhirnya, suatu hari Efran menyatakan perasaan nya ke Sylvia. Sylvia ditembak(tapi nggak mati hahaha). Karena Sylvia juga memiliki perasaan yang sama dia pun menerima Efran sebagai pacarnya.
Tapi, hubungan mereka tidak langgeng. Baru 2 minggu mereka berpacaran tiba-tiba Efran meninggalkan Sylvia begitu saja dengan alasan karena Sylvia mau pindah ke desa yang sangat jauh. Padahal alasan sebenernya karena Efran menyukai gadis lain. Sylvia sedih & sakit hati sekali. Sylvia sudah sangat menyayangi Efran walaupun hubungan mereka baru 2 minggu. Efran tidak memikirkan perasaan Sylvia. Dia tidak peduli lagi dengan Sylvia. Efran tidak mengabari Sylvia lagi. Efran sudah tidak tau dimana. Sylvia sangat kecewa. Sylvia sangat merindukan Efran tapi Efran malah bersenang2 dengan gadis lain. Sylvia coba melupakan Efran tapi sangat susah. Walaupun susah Sylvia tetap berusaha. Seiring dengan berjalan nya waktu, Sylvia pun mulai bisa melupakan Efran. Hari-hari Sylvia lebih terasa menyenangkan. Dia mengisi hari-harinya dengan berbagai kegiatan positif sehingga Efran pun bisa terlupakan. Tapi, saat dia mulai bisa melupakan Efran, Efran muncul di tv. Dia menjadi penyanyi smish(?). Sylvia sangat kaget. Saat Sylvia melihat Efran di tv perasaannya campur aduk. Sylvia senang karena bisa melihat Efran lagi tapi Sylvia masih kesal dan sedih. Setelah melihat Efran di tv, Sylvia jadi sering galau. Teman-temannya selalu menghiburnya dan berusaha membuat Sylvia bisa melupakan Efran. Berkat teman-temannya, Sylvia akhirnya bisa kembali ceria dan perlahan lahan dia mulai bisa melupakan Efran lagi.
Tak terasa sudah waktunya Sylvia harus pindah ke Desa Suramaju. Sylvia hidup bahagia disana. Sylvia sudah melupakan Efran. Tapi disaat Sylvia sudah bisa ngelupain dan move on, Efran tiba-tiba mengabari Sylvia tentang keadaannya dan Efran ngajak balikan. Sylvia sangat bimbang. Sylvia bingung apa yang harus dilakukan. Menerima Efran kembali atau menolaknya??????
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*jengjeng*
BERSAMBUNG~
Kamis, 07 April 2011
Bandung ft Section \('-')/
yuhuuuuw~
yuhuuuu otw bandung w/ section. gue duduk bareng nadyalexandra&nia. di bus ada yg tidur, main psp, ngobrol2, nyanyi,dll. seruuu deeeh! beberapa jam kemudian nyampelah tuh di bandung. nadya nia tibatiba heboh garagara ada pstr irfan bachdim dijln & itu ganteng abiss hahahahahahahahah
senengnya ke bandung bareng section<3 tiga hari bakal bareng section, wihiii asikk! hemmm sebenernya sih sedih juga ya soalnya section gak lengkap:( ada beberapa orang yg gak ikut ke bandung..--> dhea umroh.....ara sakit...ardha ada acara keluarga....& VANYAAAAAA! seharusnya vanya ikutttt!!! tapi gak mungkin dong ya-_- dia udah di paris. padahal bakal lebih seru kalo section lengkap. tapi yaudahlah hiks.
Rabu, 16032011
hari ini hari yang ditunggu tunggu sm section setelah seminggu konsen ke utsss hhhh.
pagi2nya gue sempet badmood tuh garagara supir gue datengnya lama bangettt. udah emosi banget. hanna udah bbmin gue katanya udh mau berangkat... makin panik deeeh. akhirnya gue dianterin sama suaminya embak gue pake motor rrghh-.- dijalan udah panik takut ditinggalin huhu tapi untungnya enggak. pas nyampe sekolah anak anak udah pada menuju bus. langsung cepet2 turun deh tuh. hahahahah alhamdulillah tidak ditinggal. pak yanto udah nyindir2 aja sambil becanda katanya gue mau ditinggal-_- ohiya kita juga dikasih buku panduan&lks gituuu dan harus diisi tapi sampe sekarang gue blm ngisi satupun hahahahahah:D
yuhuuuu otw bandung w/ section. gue duduk bareng nadyalexandra&nia. di bus ada yg tidur, main psp, ngobrol2, nyanyi,dll. seruuu deeeh! beberapa jam kemudian nyampelah tuh di bandung. nadya nia tibatiba heboh garagara ada pstr irfan bachdim dijln & itu ganteng abiss hahahahahahahahah
pas nyampe bandung, pertama kita ke museum geologi.
LUNCH TIME!
yappp...waktunya makan siang & sholat. dari museum geologi kita ke saung pengkolan. makan&sholat disanaaa. sholat dzuhur nya dijamak sm ashar..
dari saung pengkolan perjalanan masih lanjut. kita ke.....saung angklung udjo! pas nyampe masih harus nunggu sejam hhhhh.
1 jam kemudian, pertunjukan nya udah mulai. ada pertunjukan wayang, sisingaan, angklung & tarian2 gitu. disana kita juga diajarin main angklung.
Melati Putih
pas nyampe ..........dag dig dug. namanya horror "melati putih" HAHAHAHAHA. tapi ternyata tempatnya enakkk&nyaman.
kita dibagi jadi beberapa kelompok kmr. tp tetep aja tidurnya ngacak wkwk. kamar gue paling enak. strategis&luas(y)
oyaaa sebelum tidur kita sempet sempetin nonton cinta fitri HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH katro banget ye-_-
Kamis, 17032011
yappp tgl 17..... happy anniv selvy-reinggard!!! longlast, amin.
jam 4(kalogasalah) udah dibangunin sama guru2-_- rrghhh lagi enak enak tidur juga tuhhh>,<
hal pertama yg dilakukan hari ini sholat. dilanjutkan lari pagi. dingiin bangetttt brrrrrrr
abis keliling keliling lari pagi kita balik ke melati putih.. mandi,dll trs sarapan.
yakkk hari ini kita bakal capek deh pasti....
tempat pertama yg bakal dikunjungin---> BOSCHA
pergi kesini menguras tenaga banget. superduper capek!!!! kita harus jalan kaki arghhh rese gaksiii??? hm tapi nikmatin aja lah ya. kita juga sambil jalan kan sambil futufutu dan becanda2.
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yeaaah, finally arrvd at boscha!
CIWALK
okayyyyyyyyyy dari boscha lanjut ke ciwalk \:D/
yappp tgl 17..... happy anniv selvy-reinggard!!! longlast, amin.
jam 4(kalogasalah) udah dibangunin sama guru2-_- rrghhh lagi enak enak tidur juga tuhhh>,<
hal pertama yg dilakukan hari ini sholat. dilanjutkan lari pagi. dingiin bangetttt brrrrrrr
abis keliling keliling lari pagi kita balik ke melati putih.. mandi,dll trs sarapan.
yakkk hari ini kita bakal capek deh pasti....
tempat pertama yg bakal dikunjungin---> BOSCHA
pergi kesini menguras tenaga banget. superduper capek!!!! kita harus jalan kaki arghhh rese gaksiii??? hm tapi nikmatin aja lah ya. kita juga sambil jalan kan sambil futufutu dan becanda2.
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yeaaah, finally arrvd at boscha!
CIWALK
okayyyyyyyyyy dari boscha lanjut ke ciwalk \:D/
Jumat, 18032011
yuppp TGIF! \:D/
hari ini kita ke kawah putih dan lanjut berenang. tapi gak jadi berenang karena tempatnya tutup.
KAWAH PUTIH
kan gak jadi berenang tuuuuh jadi kita lanjut ke kebun strawberry!
di kebun strawberry gue gak ikut metik. gue di bus doang krn udah capek banget dan udah gejala gejala sakit. jadi tidur deh di bus hahahahaha
selesai metik strawberry kita pulang... dijalan anak-anak udah keliatan capek. tapi tetep aja rusuh hahaha. gue sih sepanjang jalan kebanyakan tidur walaupun sangat terganggu krn anak-anak pada berisik banget. jalanan macet banget-_-
sekitar jam 7 nyampelah kita di asbcc. huuuuh satu kata "tired". badan pegel pegel semua-__- tapi tetep seneeeeeeeeeeeng
Thanks section buat 3 harinya!<3
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